Your help,please?

I own a PS3 and ofc FIFA 11.
The thing is,when I get myself finding an opponent to play with in any type of match it loads forever till it annoingly says "Connection to your opponent has been lost."!
I get that error all the time.
I have redeemed the code and signed in in both PSN and FIFA from PS3.So wtf is going on?
Thanks in advance.|||m8 it happens alot on here try playing heaed to head quick match|||It keeps happening with every type of game I try to play :/|||SO U CANT ACTUALLY PLAY 1 ONLINE SINGLE GAME ?|||Yeah,rofl!|||Anyone??|||can u go online with the console? if u can, the problem lies with ea. a lot of us are in a tight spot, mate.|||Yea,the problem comes up when I try to connect with an opponent.It says "Loading...." and after a minute or half a minute it says " Connection to the opponent has been lost"!
PFFFFF!|||what is your connection status Restrictive Moderate or open|||None of them is "highlighted"!I thought that this is the fault but I don't know any way to change this.
Thanks for giving me help.|||The thing is I'm in a similar boat but mines Restrictive, All I know it's a problem with the router and it's settings. To me it's complicated so I would ask your Internet provider for some help. Personally I hold EA responsible because every other game is fine but theirs.|||I'd try everything.Any possible solution that I could use?|||So?|||Even Pes online has sorted itself out now|||FIFA online was more than fun and I hope that it's still like that but,I didn't have the chance to get myself knowing since I CAN NOT CONNECT!